Family Affair: The life of a coach’s family

Cayden Navarre attentively watches his dad coach the boys varsity hockey game.
“We Interrupt this family to bring you…
The Basketball Season”
Draped above the staircase to downstairs, in the middle of the house, hang these words. Pictured in a black frame with bolded letters and a loud font, these 12 words describe Steve O’Brien’s life, basketball and golf coach, along with every other high school coach’s life.
Coaching a high school sport requires an immense amount of time, dedication and patience, not only for the coach, but also for the family.
Going to all the games, attending a few practices, building relationships with the players and having an undeniable love for the mighty Highlanders comes with having a coach in the family.
The Zortmans
The O’Briens
The Navarres
None of these names are unfamiliar to any Homestead student or athlete. Although, the story behind their support systems might be.
Although she might only be a third grader, Adeline Navarre, has attended almost every Homestead Hockey game of her dad’s (head coach Tony Navarre) since she can remember. The love for this sport is not something that has surprised anyone who knows the Navarre family.
The youth organization hockey team, Ozaukee Ice Dogs, had a few players skate out for the National Anthem on the Jan. 5 varsity game, accompanied with some of Homestead’s players. Of course Adeline just had to be a part of this. As she skated onto the rink adjacent to Pierce Stastney, senior captain, her honey-colored curls spilling out the bottom of her helmet, Adeline has never seemed happier.
To put it in simple terms, she loves the boys, especially Pierce.
Watching on the sidelines of almost every varsity football game was Lee Zortman. Amidst the cool fall air and the nighttime excitement for the players stands Lee, watching the team he so wishfully hopes to play on when he is older. A few players joke with him on the sidelines, playing childish games and just talking with him.
They take him under their wing. He now says ‘hi’ to the players at basketball games or whenever he sees them around town, but most importantly, he now plays Fortnite with a few of them.
Jen Zortman’s views on her husband being a coach are nothing but respect and love. The children love to watch their dad coach, work with the students, and as a result, the children already have a connection with Homestead.
“They walk around and very proudly wear their Homestead clothes,” Mrs. Zortman said.
Coaching involves a lot of pressure, late nights, long days and a constant busy schedule.
“It was hard when they were younger, and he wasn’t there. They would cry and then I would cry,” Cathy O’Brien jokes. “But it got better. They got older and it become completely awesome,” O’Brien added.
When O’Brien’s children begin attending Homestead, they felt it made the transition into high school easier.
“It was great seeing familiar faces in the hallway. Helped me feel more comfortable,” Amelia O’Brien, freshman, said.
Mrs. O’Brien is not the only spouse to understand the challenges that come with having a coach in the framily. “As much as I love it, it’s hard having a husband who is away a lot. Although I wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s our lives; it’s everything my kids know,” Molly Navarre, spouse of coach Tony Navarre, said.
Coaching a high school sports requires support. Being a parent also requires support. Without their families, these coaches agree they would not be able to be the coaches they are today.

Bella Magee is currently a freshman at Homestead High School. She loves to spend time with friends and go out to eat. She has a strong interest in 80-90’s...
Jean Sass • Jan 26, 2019 at 7:03 am
Hey there Bella…..nice work. We are so impressed with this article, showcasing the dedication of coaches and demonstrating your incredible writing talent.
Great work!
Laurie Zukaitis • Jan 25, 2019 at 9:03 am
Great article. As the aunt of Mr. and Mrs. Navarre I have followed the teams for years. Seldom get to watch in person but know what dedication it takes from both spouses to have one of them be a coach. Great job writing this insightful article.
David Cox • Jan 24, 2019 at 6:10 pm
Nice work young lady. As a coach I appreciate the shout out for the coaches family! We love what we do but it would never be possible with out the support from home.
David Cox
Nothland Pines Head Boys Hockey Coach
Mrs. Janssen • Jan 24, 2019 at 3:31 pm
Awesome article, Bella! Keep writing! I’m super proud of you. – Ms. J
Ali Baehler • Jan 24, 2019 at 2:36 pm
Congrats, Bella! You did an awesome job!
Anthony W. Navarre • Jan 24, 2019 at 9:22 am
Really well done. Thanks Bella.